Using desensitizing velofel methods such as pills, creams, or climax control condoms. Also a bad idea. For one, they don't produce any significant effect. Also, if you get used to them, the sex you have without them will be even WORSE than usual. So what is the best way to control premature ejaculation and improve your stamina? Do what I did and study up on natural techniques that involve nothing but your own velofel body.